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Dai Kam Jie (Bride’s Chaperone) 大妗姐

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The Chinese traditional practices are slowly forgotten with every generation. Many Chinese couples choose to have more Westernized weddings because they have very little knowledge about the way to conduct a proper wedding in their culture. There are too many rules, some even differ with the specific dialect. Hence hiring a wedding chaperone would definitely help guide the family members in organizing the traditional proceedings accordingly. He/ she will remind you of the do’s and don’ts to make sure you conduct the ritual correctly for a happy, abundant and fulfilling marriage. 

However avoid engaging a DaiKam/ Dai Kum who loves to steal the show, or one who is not so knowledgeable. If you have witnessed them in action before during previous weddings or from your personal experience, can you leave a few words here?

fetch the bride proceeding
One of the tasks of a chaperone is to organize the “fetch the bride” proceeding, tea ceremony…
Photo by Zane Photoz

Anna 姐  

Tel: 016-271 1176 (Dec 2012)
“We would personally recommend our Dai Kum Jie (大妗姐). She’s really trained, did her job in addressing the families & ancestors really well and she managed to pull out a good show by getting the bridesmaids & groomsmen to join in her chants. We personally do not have a good impression on lady chaperones but Anna totally changed our mind no doubt. Need to book her fast, as many have feedback that she’s fully booked for most of the dates. Anna jie is one dai kum jie we truly respect and all of the family members including heng dai jimuis loves her. She’s not bossy & gets along well with everyone 🙂 She will ask for meet up first to see if you are satisfied with her or not.”

Xue Li Jie (Shirley Chang) 雪莉姐

shirley chang speaks many dialects

Xue Li Jie (Shirley) from Cheras. She can speak Cantonese, Hakka and Mandarin well. With 3 years of experience, ranked 23rd under the mentorship of Anna Wong. She is very entertaining which the older folks love. Amazingly, she sang for each couple when tea was served and could do so in a few languages. With good attitude and EQ as well as a modern appearance, she manages wedding ceremonies well.

Tel: 012 3278621

Mummy Three 林峰山

mummythree chinese opera face


A male “Dai Kam” who is funny and hyperactive. He is also multi-talented. The Chinese Opera face (mask) changing trick performance by him was interesting. Speaks Mandarin, Hokkien. Here’s a wedding actual day video showing some of his work:

Jerry Wong (Emcee and Master of Tea Ceremony- Dai Kum) |

He is a wedding emcee and Master of traditional Tea Ceremony. His modern style approach in handling the crowd makes everyone of all ages feels comfortable. Able to speak in English, Cantonese, Mandarin, Jerry will make sure that your wedding ceremony run smoothly with a lot of fun, laughter and jokes. 

Jerry is funny and good with people

MC Jo | | Emcee and Master of Chinese Wedding Ceremony

Jocelyn is a professional emcee who runs an academy providing hosting and emceeing training. She also conducts traditional Chinese wedding ceremony in English as well as Chinese, a modern 大妗姐.

Apple Dai Kam | FB Page.
She is a lively person. Professional.

Xin Jie
Tel: 016-2785507, 012-2920337
Her hilarious words of good wishes had everyone laughing their hearts out. The phrases weren’t too traditional yet meaningful. The guests and family members complimented her for the job well done. Rates: RM390 (2010)

Geng Kor
Tel: 012-5013301 
Geng Kor is one of the best “Dai Kam” around. This male wedding chaperone is fun and friendly.

Tel: 016-2793185
Friendly and humorous. Rate: RM480 (2012)


Oct 2016

I hired Jerry for my morning tea ceremony and wedding emcee, he is very professional and responsible guy. It was a very memorable day for me and I could have ask for nothing more from the experience i have gotten from hiring Jerry Wong. Jerry hosted my wedding like a boss, he was also a very funny with some jokes in between to lighten up my crowd. One thing I liked most about Jerry is with the Modern Style approach he took to make the crowd (People of all ages) feel comfortable. to add on, he also host my wedding dinner in English and Cantonese 🙂 All in all, i would like to recommend his service to everyone..





Mar 2012

Maybe u wan to look for “Geng kor”. He is a tai kam lou but
he is by far the best tai kam i worked with.  

Sep 2010

“You may contact this Gengko, he is a male tai kum, my cousins sister
hired him and he is quite fun and friendly” my cousin sister introduced. But
he was booked when I contacted him. Tel: 012-5013301


Oct 2012

My multi talented dai kam Mummythree ♥♥♥
thanks Dad Jimmy Ong for the fabulous recommendation. FB page:

Mar 2011

Walau, beh tahan the “Dai Kam Po” lor…. Or should say
“Dai Kam Gong” as he is a male…. So damn interesting and funny..

Joanne babe @ Jul 2012

My dai kum jeh is Doris. She’s very friendy & humourous. Her
contact number is 016-2793185 🙂 Her rate is RM480



hot-choc @ Jul 2012

My dai kam jie is Xue Li Jie (Shirley Chang). Contact number is 012 3278621. I just had my AD a
couple of weeks ago. Everything turned out great. My tai kam jie was good,
very entertaining which the older folks loved. She prepared chocolate gold
coins for the tea ceremony, as i need to give it back to the couple that i
served tea to and lolipops for kids that i hand out ang pows to. She sang for
each couple when we served tea and could do so in a few languages. 🙂
PhotoGlebe @ Mar 2011
I knew of 1 Dai Kam Jie, whose appearance is quite “in”, good attitude and good EQ.
One think special about her is, she hosts the tea ceremony with singing, amazing! 歌唱大妗 – 雪莉姐 Shirley Chang 012-3278621

sherylp @ Feb 2011

Just had my wedding on the 12th feb 2011. Engaged with the TKJ. She
had done a great job on that day! Her verses was funny and everyone had a
good laugh, not too traditional but meaningful. First time seeing my father
laugh greatly. Mostly all of my relatives commented she has done a great job!
I am not sure her real name but we call her Xin Jie. Here is her number:
016-2785507, 012-2920337

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